Come Listen to A Prophet's Voice...

I watched these videos on a friend's blog (thank you Aprilyn for finding these) and I wanted to pass them along to you. Please pass them along to your friends. The time has come and is long past for you and me no longer be complacent about these matters. Listen to the words of the prophets and see for yourselves that they saw our day....



And then Glen Beck played a clip of Ezra Taft Benson from the 1960's and had this to say about our coming socialist country...



Socialism by Degrees

Is Khrushchev right? Are we Americans all mindless dolts? It is not too late, we can do something about it!!! But we can no longer afford to be complacent. Our prophets have warned us and forewarned us sufficiently, but are we listening? Even the Book of Mormon, which was written for our day has something to say about being poisoned by degrees:

In this story, Amalickiah uses treachery, murder, and intrigue to become King of the Lamanites. Lehonti at first refuses to even meet with Amalickiah. But by degrees Amalickiah gains the trust of Lehonti so that he not only comes down from his stronghold or place of power, but he eventually surrenders his power and is poisoned by degrees.

Alma 47:4-18

8 Now it was not Amalickiah’s intention to give them battle according to the commandments of the king; but behold, it was his intention to gain favor with the armies of the Lamanites, that he might place himself at their head and dethrone the king and take possession of the kingdom.
9 And behold, it came to pass that he caused his army to pitch their tents in the valley which was near the mount Antipas.
10 And it came to pass that when it was night he sent a secret embassy into the mount Antipas, desiring that the leader of those who were upon the mount, whose name was Lehonti, that he should come down to the foot of the mount, for he desired to speak with him.
11 And it came to pass that when Lehonti received the message he durst not go down to the foot of the mount. And it came to pass that Amalickiah sent again the second time, desiring him to come down. And it came to pass that Lehonti would not; and he sent again the third time.
12 And it came to pass that when Amalickiah found that he could not get Lehonti to come down off from the mount, he went up into the mount, nearly to Lehonti’s camp; and he sent again the fourth time his message unto Lehonti, desiring that he would come down, and that he would bring his guards with him.
13 And it came to pass that when Lehonti had come down with his guards to Amalickiah, that Amalickiah desired him to come down with his army in the night-time, and surround those men in their camps over whom the king had given him command, and that he would deliver them up into Lehonti’s hands, if he would make him (Amalickiah) a second leader over the whole army.
14 And it came to pass that Lehonti came down with his men and surrounded the men of Amalickiah, so that before they awoke at the dawn of day they were surrounded by the armies of Lehonti.
15 And it came to pass that when they saw that they were surrounded, they plead with Amalickiah that he would suffer them to fall in with their brethren, that they might not be destroyed. Now this was the very thing which Amalickiah desired.
16 And it came to pass that he delivered his men, contrary to the commands of the king. Now this was the thing that Amalickiah desired, that he might accomplish his designs in dethroning the king.
17 Now it was the custom among the Lamanites, if their chief leader was killed, to appoint the second leader to be their chief leader.
18 And it came to pass that Amalickiah caused that one of his servants should administer poison by degrees to Lehonti, that he died.

My friends I am afraid that we have left our stronghold and our position of power and if we are not careful we will be poisoned by degrees. Come Listen to a Prophet's Voice and learn the word of God...Follow the Prophet, he knows the way!

Orange Soda: More Flat than Fizz

I am not one to really go off on a company that annoys me. I tend to think more like this: "You're a dork, we all know you are a dork so I won't waste my awesome, superior brain power on dorks like you." But in this case I'll make an exception...

Last year I signed on with Orange Soda Online Advertising to help me promote my online business. We started out small with a plan to work our way up. I signed on to have them post my company in as many directories as possible for $35 a month. In a few months they were supposed to contact me (according to the sales person) to see how else they could help me. A few months went by and nothing. Not the best impression, but oh well. After about 6 months I began to be intrigued with the idea of how long would it take them to actually call me for the next step.

As I suspected it took them to the end of my contract...exactly one year later I got a call, which I ignored. The next week I called them on my renewal date to cancel my revolving contract. (This call took place yesterday, on Thursday)The conversation was pleasant enough until they asked me why I was canceling. So I told him. Apparently he didn't like my answer so much.

Oh, the he I am talking about is Dan, my personal account manager. The last time I heard my Account Manager was Jason. Who's Dan?

So I told Dan that I am pretty much done with Orange Soda and to stop my account and not charge me for the month. He tells me that my account has already been charged, yesterday(Wednesday) and cannot be refunded. I am indignant about it but, ok, that just proves that my decisions to fire these doughheads was the correct one...but just to be sure I get off the phone with Dan and go check my Bank Statement (you gotta love the internet) no charge from Orange Soda which would have been there had he charge me yesterday. Could it possibly be true I was lied to? Ummm....

Fast forward to today (Friday)...I check my online bank statement again today and there it is... oh but wait! There are not one but, count 'em folks, TWO of the exact same charges to my bank account from Orange Soda...WOW! I guess Dan showed me who's boss! He charged my account probably the second he got off the phone with me...NICE! Thank goodness for being able to dispute charges, which I promptly did for BOTH of them. We'll see how it turns out! In the meantime I intend to tell anyone who will listen to me how nice and customer friendly Orange Soda and my account manager Dan are. I want everyone who is capable of clear reason to know that Orange Soda cares about small businesses and dealing fairly with everyone. And then I have some beachfront property in Mesa to sell ya!

Did I mention the name of this awesome company is Orange Soda?

Chocolate Club Anyone?

If you have a LOVE for chocolate this is the place for you!

The Chocolate Club has been officially announced! We will have our first meeting on March 11^th at 7:00 p.m. at Debbie Besselievre’s home, 10742 Shinnecock. The first meeting will be to pick an awesome name, vote on VP, Treasure and Secretary, an overview of the purpose of the club and to eat chocolate of course! There are dues associated with this club because we have to fund the purchase of chocolate, field trips and other expenses. The dues are $5 a month. If anyone has any questions call or email Debbie Besselievre - 492-4080 or debbie.hunnybee@gmail.com

Why a Chocolate Club?

Do we even need to ask this question???Because all chocolate enthusiasts know that Chocolate is for sharing! Coming together in a group of like-minded people is always a rich experience. When you join a club like this one you will learn more about chocolate than you ever thought possible, who is making what, why it is deemed special, where you can find it and most of all taste it! You will get the opportunity to share your view with others on each chocolate and expand your own personal database of chocolate. Imagine finding a diverse group of people discussing chocolate in a way usually reserved for European art, wine, films or literature and you will begin to understand what a chocolate club is – it can be a life changing experience!

One of the first priorities of this Chocolate Club is to draw attention to the difference between the complex delicacy the world greatest cooks and gourmets recognize as chocolate, and the confection which Americans consume by the ton every week. The principle ingredient of commercial chocolate bars and bon bons is not cocoa but sugar, saturated vegetable fat and powdered milk. These dietary villains are responsible for chocolate’s undeserved reputation as a fattening, tooth rotting, addictive indulgence.

If this is how you have always looked at chocolate or if you always knew there was more to it...this is the place for you!

Twilight Party

I was told by Ashley that I am not "allowed" to post pictures of "her" party on facebook, but she can't stop me from blogging about it. :-) I worked pretty hard on this party! I deserve to brag about it... It was an awesome party!

When we started planning it we didn't want to duplicate anything that had been done before or have it be cliche'. What we wanted was to have this be the kind of party that Alice would have thrown if she were here and I think we can safely say mission accomplished! So here is my Alice -



For the party decoration we had hundreds of twinkle lights, candles, balloons and flowers - here is the final result...



Even Edward showed up!



And last but not least the birthday cake -



It was a cherry vanilla cake with chocolate ganache filling with cherry vanilla frosting covered with Cherry Vanilla Fondant. Yummy! For the food buffet we had an assortment of Italian food in honor of where Edward took Bella out to eat. We had homemade bread sticks with marinara and alfredo dipping sauces, artichoke spinach dip and chips, mozzarella sticks and pizza.

Wordless Wednesday - Ashley's Turns 18!

My Own Worst Enemy

Ok, so I have been reading the suggested reading from the Fibromyalgia Clinic I am going to Wednesday night. (See list below*) And it looks to me like I am my own worst enemy. I don't want to give out the wrong impression here. I didn't CAUSE this illness, per se, but I didn't help it either. It seems we don't pass on FS (fibromyalgia syndrome) genetically but certain gene pools are more prone to it with the right environmental factors.

According to Dr. Elrod, I am typical of a personality type that develops FS: perfectionist, organized, type A, obsessive etc. You get the idea. I always thought those were GOOD things but I guess in heavy doses, not so much...So if you are like me at all now might be a good time to learn to relax....just a little...trust me...it would be a good idea to AVOID this if at all possible.

Lots of other factors contribute to the development of FS...it seems I have ALL of them - SURPRISE!

• lack of exercise
• not the healthiest of diets
• trauma, emotional and/or physical
• genetic predisposition
• consistent, long term stress
• hormone imbalance
• uptight personality
• negative outlook and attitude
• putting everyone else first
  
• can't say no
• depression

This is not an easy thing to admit but the above list describes most, if not all, of my life. Little did I know that all my life "stars" would align just so and result in this insidious illness. The good news is that it is NOT TOO LATE and it is possible to reverse this, if I work at it very diligently. All I can say is I have a lot of work to do. YIKES!! But at the same time, after 50 years, it is about time I started taking care of myself.

*Knowledge is power! Your body is your number one asset. There are lots of great books out there (and a lot of misleading ones too!). Here’s a few the clinic recommends:

Reversing Fibromyalgia (Natural Fibromyalgia Healing) - Joe Elrod,
The Sugar Control Bible (Nutrition) - Jacqueline Paltis,
The Schwarzbein Principle (Nutrition) - Diana Schwarzbein,
Your Body’s Many Cries for Water (Nutrition) - F. Batmanghelidj,
8 Minutes in the Morning (Exercise) - Jorge Cruise,
Feelings Buried Alive Never Die (Emotional Healing) - Karol Truman.

Fibro...what?

I have been putting this off for a while. I really hate talking about my trials especially ones that will make other people feel sorry for me. I am afraid that this post will illicit that kind of response. But before you all ring out in a chorus of poor Debbie I want you to know that I don't feel sorry for myself at all. In fact I wouldn't even be talking about this except for one reason and one reason only - I hope what I am going through will somehow help someone else. We cannot help others unless we are willing to talk about things that happen to us and this is just plain to important to keep to myself so I am going public...

I would not describe myself as physically active in an athletic way; however, I have always been very active in other ways and in very good health most of my life, if not all of it. I have been able to do pretty much whatever I set my mind to doing and pretty much took that for granted. Today my mind writes checks my body can't cash and I find myself unable to do many things I use to enjoy.

I have lots of talents and abilities that allow me to give service and work in unique ways. I have sewn draperies and shades professionally, worked as a personal chef, I have been a political activist for Charter Schools and now I own my own business making clothes for premature babies while they are in the hospital. Some of my other talents and interests include: heirloom sewing, tatting (lace making) sewing, scrapbooking, reading, tai chi, yoga, painting, taking long walks, holding and playing with my grandchildren, gourmet cooking, entertaining and interior decorating. Up until two years ago I could enjoy all of these things and more. Little did I know how drastically my life would change?

I need to point out that I am not a baby when it comes to pain. I have dealt with pain in my life before but nothing like this! About two years ago I started to lose range of motion in both my shoulders with pain so severe that I couldn't even lift my arms over my head. I got very concerned and went to the doctor. And this started a game called "toss the Debbie" from one doctor to another. I'll spare you to details - but basically they couldn't figure out what was wrong with me...exactly. We have now narrowed it down to two things and I could have either one or both. Fibromyalgia or non-degenerative Rheumatoid Arthritis. I sort of feel like I am on "Let's Make a Deal" and I have just seen what is behind door number 1 & 2 and I am thinking I'll take door number 3!

I love how the doctors put this; "the good news is that what you have will not kill you but the bad news is you will have to deal with this the rest of your life!" What?!?!? You're kidding me right?

Let it suffice to say that the pain is now widespread. It started in my right shoulder and within days spread to my left shoulder. From there it went to my hips (both) hips. It has traveled down my arms to include my wrists, hands and fingers. My knees hurt and so do my ankles and feet. Even my heels hurt! It is difficult to describe the type of pain this is: sometimes it is a dull ache, sometimes it is stabbing, and sometimes it feels like burning. My joints seem to be effected but the real problem feels more like it is in my muscles. My joints feel like they are on fire and my muscles ache and I get stabs of pain with specific movements. My whole body feels sluggish, weak and heavy. Simple movements used to happen automatically and now I cannot do anything without thinking about it either just to execute it or because doing so causes pain. And the pain is more intense in rainy,stormy or cold weather.

Here is a list of some of the ways this pain has changed my life:

• I can’t sleep. Any time I move or roll over the pain is excruciating. It wakes me up and I do not sleep soundly all night.
• I cannot hold my grandchildren without worrying that I will drop them, especially the 3 year old who wiggles.
• I cannot put my hands on my hips without severe pain and willpower. I used to stand like this naturally.
• I cannot even dress myself without sitting down to put on my pants; my legs won’t lift high enough. I can’t do my hair and make-up without considerable pain in my shoulders, arms and hands.
• Yoga is out of the question any more. luckily I can still do Tai Chi
• I cannot open jars by myself.
• If I sit on the floor to play with my grandson, I can’t get off the floor without help or kneeling on all fours and using a table to get off the floor.
• I cannot sit for very long without become extremely stiff. Sometimes I cannot stand up without help.
• For some reason I cannot concentrate as well as I used to; I become distracted easily, forget what I was doing. My mind feels cloudy, like I am in a fog.
• I am exhausted all the time. I have no energy. I wake up having no energy. It takes me several hours in the morning to get things moving. I can still do Tai chi and that helps but it is very difficult and painful.
• We have two sets of stairs in my home. I would often run up and down them multiple times a day. I considered this part of my exercise. Now I don’t run anywhere especially on the stairs. I have to use the rail to hang on to so I don’t fall.
• I start to feel better about 1 in the afternoon and then it is short lived and I am exhausted again by dinner time.
• My grip is weak. It makes it hard to drive a car, pick things up, hold the hand of a toddler etc.
• Cooking is hard and difficult because of lifting pots and pans, opening jars, cutting, stirring, kneading etc. I can’t carry in the groceries from the car.
• I can’t put my arms behind me to zip, tie or button anything.
• I can’t even read for any length of time. Holding a book hurts my hands and arms.
• Sewing is very hard from several standpoints; sitting, movement of hands, arms and shoulders. Standing at the ironing board.
• My children have to be careful how they touch me. Sometimes just grabbing my arm to get my attention sends a stab of pain down my arm. Poking me on the arm hurts so bad it makes me cry. And sometimes even hugs hurt.
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So I can just look forward to the above list for the rest of my life! NOT!!!

The most insidious part about this illness is that it is what you are diagnosed with once they can't find anything else. So it is diagnosis by default. And to add insult to injury only a few years ago most doctors thought it was an illness in the mind...oh please give me a break! I don't know about ALL the women out there but I have better things to do with my time than run to the doctor every week and willingly submit to all sorts of tests that involve needles just for the fun of it. Geez!

Now I need to stop before I go too far down the pitty road. I think you get the idea that this chronic illness stinks, is no fun and nobody in their right mind would make up such a thing...ever!

Now the question begs to be asked, What can you do about it? My answer is plenty!

Last year I had a blessing where the Lord promised me that I would be healed. I am going to go with that. It has been a year since then and the improvements have been minimal but I am not giving up. This illness is by all accounts incurable but I am unwilling to accept that especially in light of my blessing. Apparently, others are unwilling to accept it as well. Last week I think I found my solution. I am not sure but I think so. And this brings me to the point of this blog post - I thought it would be good if we find out all about it together.

As luck would have it there just so happens to be a Fibromyalgia Clinic in Salt Lake! What are the chances??? But it is true! And they have a holistic approach to treatment, which I like and they think that people can be cured or live without pain, which I also like and believe. So I have a reservation to attend a free seminar for more information on January 14th. I know...I know what you are saying...What if they are a bunch of quacks?? I have it covered. This is why I want to check it out and report it back to you. If I have to tell you then I will know in a few sentences of typing if I can tell it with a straight face. So wish me luck!